欸，靚的離去對我而言，在我心上曾扯開了一個難瘉的洞－－後來這個失去，卻形成了我生命中截然不同的轉折點。
我與靚的認識是在一個網路角色扮演遊戲裡，她的舉止言談，總帶點淡淡的幽鬱美好氣質，那股女性的魅力讓我感到著迷；後來我離開那個網路平台，但保持了與靚的來往，就這麼開始一段遠距離的感情，偶爾我送花、訂手工餅乾給她什麼的。
在這之間我發現當她心情好的時候聰慧溫柔、笑語盈盈時散發的氛圍格外迷人；然而在她悒鬱時，就如同蒙上了濃霧的山坳般難以著摸；而當她告訴我，她怎麼也難以忘懷她之前那段感情時，我的心彷彿也跟著跌入很深的迷霧中……特別是她輕描淡寫地告訴我，她曾經為此而憂鬱的關係，入院住了段時間。她那脆弱的影像讓我希望能夠盡力保護她、為她做些什麼。
固然是當她心情不好時我儘量想讓她忘掉憂煩；當她開心的時候我雖然很高興，但卻小心翼翼地怕弄縐一池春水……。結果她難受時我受到感染，而她開心時我卻也因為過於緊張而沒辦法分享！原來我的生活因為那段時間工作不順遂已經過得不好，經此又往下滑走。
當時我首度檢視麻木了很久的自己，赫然發現：在一天之中我快樂的時間佔全部的比例，竟宛如是整個高爾夫球果嶺上的球洞那般大罷了！我不得不懷疑人真的只能這麼過嗎？那時起多方搜尋，我開始迫切地想知道『生命的意義』、『心』、『愛』是什麼？而在這之前我是十足十的機會主義、現實主義者的，對精神靈性之道毫無所悉！
為了瞭解這宇宙的另種面貌「法則」，後來我閱讀經典、打坐、參加禪修等，莫不是為了要瞭解「我們為何在此」；另一方面，我終究沒能守護好這段如陶瓷般易碎的感情，靚與我漸行漸遠、究竟是離我而去……而我也只能很誠摯地祝福她快樂。
我一度很愛靚，即使是現在仍然常想起她，她的離去對我而言是難忍的失去。然而就像《聖經》上說的：「上帝為你關上一扇門，必定幫你開啟另一扇窗。」為了她的關係，我在心靈之道第一次看到改變生命的曙光。這是如何的造化弄人呢？來聽首窈窕美眉的＂The day you went away."紀念那遙遠的傷心時刻吧……這也是我的手機來電鈴聲喔！
《在遙遠那方的太陽鳥》 http://channel.pixnet.net/reading/event/info/1590
M2M The Day You Went Away
Well I wonder could it be
When I was dreaming 'bout you baby you were dreaming of me
Call me crazy call me blind
To still be suffering is stupid after all of this time
Did I lose my love to someone better
And does she love you like I do
I do you know I really really do
Well hey so much I need to say
Been lonely since the day
The day you went away
So sad but true
For me there's only you
Been lonely since the day
The day you went away
Oh whoa .... yeah... oh...ooh...
I remember date and time
September twenty-second Sunday twenty-five after nine
In the doorway with you case
No longer shouting at each other
There were tears on our faces
And we were letting go of something special
Something we'll never have again
I know, I guess I really really know
Well hey so much I need to say
Been lonely since the day
The day you went away
So sad but true
For me there's only you
Been crying since the day
The day you went away
The day you went away
The day you went away
Oh whoa .... yeah oh
Did I lose my love to someone better
And does she love you like I do
I do you know I really really do
Well hey so much I need to say
Been lonely since the day
The day you went away
So sad but true
For me there's only you
Been crying since the day
The day you went away
Why do we never know what we've got till it's gone
How could I carry on
The day you went away
Cause I've been missing you so much I had to say
Been crying since the day
The day you went away
The day you went away
The day you went away
oh whoa .. yeah oh
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